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Camera shy? Let’s change that forever.

somatic. emotional. experiential.

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Calm Before the Camera:

Seven powerful truths to turn your dread into confidence,
& transform how you experience the lens… and 
the mirror.

Get eye-opening videos and guided immersion steps

designed to help you recognize your powerful presence.

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SOUND FAMILIAR?

I’m not photogenic.

I never like how I look in photos.

My body isn’t ready.

Most of us have been taught to fear the camera. It’s not your fault that these phrases have become common. And it’s not about your face, your weight, or your age.

It’s about releasing the hold that beauty myths have on you, and preparing for what your mind and body experience during a photo session. 

CALM BEFORE the CAMERA
is a guided reset: seven truths that reshape how you see yourself on camera.

I’ll be with you every step of the way—through short videos of un-learning myths and revealing their truths, building affirmations, releasing mental and physical tension, practical follow-throughs… even a playlist. 

Each section—or Truth—is curated to help you relax into your own presence, celebrate (and dress for) the body you have today, and rediscover how to speak confidently through your photos.

Meka

 the happy guide

This isn’t about angles and tricks (though, I’ll share a few).
This is about shifting the REAL lens so you stop feeling like the camera is judgment, and start feeling like you belong in front of it.

✸ What You’ll Receive 

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MYTH-BUSTING TRUTHS

  • 7 Truth Segments
    38 short videos

    3 to 15 mins each

  • Mindset + Embodiment + Practical Lessons
    While sitting in your chair or interacting with the world

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MULTI-SENSORY PRACTICES 

  • Audio Meditations:
    One for “calming”
    One for “empowerment”

  • ​Music Playlists
    Curated for photo-day vibes or daily mood-boosting

  • Written Prompts
    Unpack old stories and solidify new Truths

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TRANSFORMATIVE RESOURCES

  • Printable Affirmation Cards
    Reminders to post where you’ll see them daily

  • ​Wardrobe & Color Guides
    Applicable strategies  + Seasonal Tone Quiz

  • 30+ Things to Do with Your Images
    Functional and inspiring usage lists

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What You’ll Experience

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  • Reframing photos as an investment in your life story, not a vanity project.

  • Gentle stretches and tension releases for resetting and preparing your body.

  • Learning how your expressions and light create mood.

  • Dressing for your shape—celebrating what you have today.

  • Presence over perfection: rewriting the story about “flaws.”

  • Building a personal confidence bank with your images.

  • Calm tips for showing up anywhere with ease.

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Who is this for?

Anyone who avoids the camera

…but would rather feel at ease

Professionals overdue for a profile photo upgrade

…who have been frozen with dread

Women 35+ stepping into a new chapter

…career, empty nest, reinvention, rejuvenation

Those who have ever said, “I’m not photogenic.”

…or, “I don’t photograph well.”

• START YOUR RESET TODAY •
SELF-PACED, LIFETIME ACCESS for
$197
Personal Branding Headshots, Boudoir, Business Corporate, Engagement, Couples, Maternity, Legacy, and Family Portraits.
Enroll now
and get the
BONUS

a printed set of 16     Affirmation Cards

delivered to your home.

Meka Hemmons is a Chicago-based portrait photographer and speaker whose work centers on identity, emotional presence, and reframing the modern beauty myth.

 

Since founding SpiderMeka Portraits in 2016, she has photographed professionals and leaders across the globe. Her signature approach has helped Fortune-level executives, creative teams, entrepreneurs, celebrities, and everyday humans show up with clarity, confidence, and authentic expression — both in photographs and in their professional lives.

 

Over more than 25 years of her career, Meka has studied facial expression, body language, micro-gestures, self-perception psychology, and the neuroscience of emotional regulation. Through this work, she developed a repeatable method for helping people settle their nerves, relax tension, and access genuine presence on camera. She teaches these principles in workshops, corporate trainings, podcasts, and live events where she photographs volunteers on the spot to demonstrate how emotional ease transforms the entire image.

 

Calm Before the Camera is the first time Meka has opened this method to the public in a guided, self-paced format. The course distills the Truths, tools, and techniques she uses in the studio every day — giving you a clear path to feeling grounded, expressive, and fully yourself whenever a camera is pointed your way.

9+ years as a professional portrait photographer

hundreds of clients worldwide

trusted by executives, entrepreneurs, celebrities & leaders

featured speaker on brand identity, presence, and the beauty myth

studio founder with a philosophy rooted in psychology, storytelling, and lived experience

expert in on-camera coaching

known for live on-stage demonstrations transforming anxiety into confidence

Enroll by Dec 9
and get the
BONUS
Aviva Brill – photographed by SpiderMeka

I was nervous and excited and had no idea what to expect. I already knew that Meka was kind, thoughtful and patient. What I didn’t know was how she would masterfully weave professionalism, fun, warmth and a brilliant mix of fluid yet structured direction that allowed me to feel comfortable and beautiful. In fact, the process was so much fun, I actually tapped into a part of myself that had been lying dormant for several years.

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Catherine Johns

Professional Speaking Coach

7 TRUTHS that CREATE CALM BEFORE the CAMERA:

Legacy

Preparation

Expression

Celebration

Presence

Resourcefulness

Confidence

Because “Calm” includes instant digital access to videos, worksheets, and downloads, all purchases are non-refundable. All course materials are owned by SpiderMeka Portraits, LLC. Please do not share, copy, or redistribute any content. Your personal data is never shared or sold with third parties. Enrollment grants access for one individual—sharing your login or distributing materials violates the Terms and may result in access being revoked. Have questions? Email: info@spidermeka.com

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